I explored beneath the surface of my checklist, to uncover what it is I actually wanted.
I realized that to find the sort of love I wanted, the kind of love my clients wanted, we needed to embrace our "too much." But where could I get help to find the relationship I ACTUALLY wanted? How could I gain the confidence to show up for myself and my dating life like the bold woman I was yearning to be? > And I asked my therapist, and she didn't know what to tell me (bless her never-been-on-a-dating-app-heart).
> I looked to my friends, and all they knew to say was "Play the numbers game! Let me swipe for you!" (love my friends, but their dating advice was like the blind leading the blind). > I looked at matchmaking, but after years at this matchmaking firm, I saw a disappointing truth: That it only worked for a small group of my clients.